I also don't have much feelings or thoughts about this book. I wasn't into the story at all until the flashbacks started happening, and was honestly more invested in finding out what happened before the main character stepped in the ocean than his current predicaments. That said, the ending is good and sends a clear message, so it's not a bad book either.
30 August 2020
28 August 2020
26 August 2020
tender
24 August 2020
Want Not
I found this a really solid book: liked the characters, liked the structure with different PoVs that somewhat converge, liked the ending that is tied up not too loosely or tightly.
22 August 2020
syrup
I tried making fruit tea and it doesn't taste anywhere near as good as bubble tea shop's wahhh.
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In other news, my cream puffs are solid now. Creme diplomat really is the way to go.
20 August 2020
Religion for Atheists
I read two others books by Alaine de Button many years ago and thought they were pretty meh, but enjoyed this one a lot more. Some of the selected topics were pleasantly surprising to me, namely pessimism and perspective, which are also my favourite concepts in the book.
Some quotations to remember:
All buildings give their owner the opportunity to recondition visitors’ expectations and lay down rules of conduct specific to them.
Our vulnerability insults our self-reception; we are in pain and at the same time insulted that we could so easily be so.
Religion proposes that the central issue for education is not so much how to counteract ignorance - as secular educators imply - as how we can combat our reluctance to act upon ideas we already fully understood at a theoretical level.
The benefits of neo-religious pessimism are no where more apparent than in relation to marriage, one of modern society’s most grief-stricken arrangements, which has been rendered unnecessarily hellish by the astonishing secular supposition that it should be entered into principally for the sake of happiness.
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These religions do recognize our desire to adore passionately. They know our need to believe in others, to worship and to serve them and to find in them perfection which eludes us in ourselves. They simply insist that these objects should be divine rather than human. [...] Faith has the good sense to give us angels to worship and lovers to tolerate.
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Modern secular optimists, on the other hand, with their well-developed sense of entitlement, fail to savour any epiphanies of everyday life as they busy themselves with the construction of earthly paradise.
During moments of frustration and disaster, [Spinoza] recommended the adoption of a cosmic perspective [...] ‘under the aspect of eternity’ sub specie aeternitatus. [...] Spinoza proposed that we use our imaginations to to step outside of ourselves and practise submitting our wills to the laws of the universe, however contrary to our intentions.
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Rather than try to redress our humiliation by insisting on our wronged importance, we should instead endeavour to apprehend and appreciate our essential nothingness.
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Our secular world is lacking in the sorts of rituals that might put us gently in our place. It surreptitiously invites us to think of the present moment as the summit of history, and the achievement of our fellow humans as the measure of all things - a grandiosity that’s plunges us into a swirl of anxiety and envy.
We are therefore in need of art to help our own neglected hurt, to grasp everything that does not come up in casual conversation and to coax us out of an unproductively isolated relationship with our most despised and awkward qualities.
18 August 2020
sun
Making a big bowl of tomato salad is the right way to honour the first big harvest:
Featuring half and half of raw tomato with basil and cooked tomato with garlic & olive oil.
16 August 2020
grad
My mom rightly pointed out that I never leave the house when I visit her, and so have not visited any of the nearby parks. This is finally no longer a true statement.
We went out for a walk around sunset and there were lots of people out enjoying the last of summer.
The wet lands are great, should've waited here longer to see the skies light up.This is actually looking towards my favourite part of the nearby lakeshore, but my vantage point was too low to capture the cove nicely. This spot will make a dramatic photo on a stormy winter day? There'll be less grass blocking the curve at least.
14 August 2020
choux
My goal is to be proficient at making cream puffs before the end of the month.
I thought my first attempt had gone really, really wrong when I was piping the dough onto the baking sheet. The dough was extremely wet and could not hold it's shape well. But alas they did spring up in the oven and ended with nice crumb.
I do still think the dough was too wet, it's hard when recipes can't provide an easy description for water content, unlike temperature. Not sure how I'm going to make sure the next iteration is less wet since the dough looks pretty much the same...and by the time I would realize it's too wet it's already too late. I also do hope that a drier dough will result in a taller shape.
The filling this time was just whipped cream, which also isn't ideal. It squishes out too easily when biting into the puff. Think I'll go with creme diplomat for next time.
12 August 2020
push
Basil pesto redux:
This time with the first batch of tomatoes from the garden, and lots more almond. Tomato and garlic sweated down in olive oil, with some basil, hard cheese, and almond is the ideal fresh pasta for summertime.
Also my mom's table is perfect for moodier food shots.
10 August 2020
My Year of Rest and Relaxation
Oh, sleep. Nothing else could ever bring me such pleasure, such freedom, the power to feel and move and think and imagine, safe from the miseries of my waking consciousness.
Her obsession with the material world pulled me out of whatever existential wormhole I’d wandered into.
And that was exactly what I wanted - my emotions passing like headlights that shine softly through a window, sweep past me, illuminate something vaguely familiar, then fade and leave me in the dark again.
Did they know that glory was mundane?